You Know What to Do.
But something in you won't let you.
You've read the advice. You understand the strategies.
Negotiate the raise.
Set the boundary.
Charge what you're worth.
And still,
something in you resists.
Not because you're lazy.
Not because you lack discipline.
Because the version of you making those decisions was never built to feel safe doing them.
Self-paced · $299 · Immediate Access
See your money identity clearly. Then decide what changes.
You're tired of fighting yourself around money.
Every financial decision feels heavier than it should.
You know what to do. But something in you won't let you follow through.
The Promotion You Didn't Ask For
Because asking felt like too much.
The Idea You Didn't Act On
Because investing in yourself felt irresponsible.
The Conversation You Avoided
Because money still carries quiet shame.
The Relationship Where You Over-Gave
Because receiving never felt fully comfortable.
You don't need more discipline.
You need a different identity to operate from.
This isn't about strategy.
Your relationship with money didn't start with numbers.
It started with identity.
Who you had to be to feel safe.
What you learned about wanting more.
What felt acceptable or too much.
That identity is still shaping every financial decision you make.
No amount of strategy can override it.
This is identity work.
Not behavior change.
The Identity Shift begins here.
The Worthiness Reset Bootcamp is the first pillar of the Emotional Wealth Alignment Method™ — the entry point into a complete framework for transforming your relationship with money at the identity level.
Pillar 1 focuses on one thing: who you are with money. Not what you earn. Not what you spend. Who you are in the relationship, and where that identity came from.
Your Relational Money Identity
The emotional position you hold in your relationship with money. Revealed in the free Identity Assessment. This is where the Bootcamp begins.
The Identity Wound
The specific fear-based pattern living inside your Relational Money Identity. The Bootcamp works on this directly at its source, not its surface.
Emotional Wealth
The identity that emerges when the wound is no longer running the show. This is the destination, and what the full EWAM™ framework is built to create.
Haven't taken the Identity Assessment yet?
Start there. It reveals your Relational Money Identity and the specific Identity Wound the Bootcamp is designed to shift before you spend a single dollar.
[ Take the Free Identity Assessment ]What shifts, and how.
In the Bootcamp you will:
- See your current Relational Money Identity clearly without judgment
- Understand where the Identity Wound came from and why it has been so persistent
- Begin the interior shift from a fear-based money identity to a self-trust-based one
- Create a new identity blueprint, the foundation for every financial decision that follows
- Navigate the discomfort of change with structure and support
- Begin integrating a new way of relating to money, one built on self-trust, not fear
You don't become a different person.
You become someone who no longer relates to money the same way.
The hesitation softens. Decisions feel clearer. The anxiety quiets.
Because something underneath has shifted.
The five Relational Money Identities, and the wound within each one.
The Bootcamp works with all five. Every Identity Wound is addressed within the five-day framework.
| Relational Identity | The Identity Wound | How It Lives in the Relationship |
|---|---|---|
| The Provider | Scarcity of Worthiness | Gives to earn the right to have. Generosity is the price of belonging. |
| The Anxious | Scarcity of Safety | Always bracing. Money feels unpredictable, even when there is enough. |
| The Stranger | Scarcity of Belonging | Wealth feels like someone else's world. Never fully introduced as theirs. |
| The Suppressed | Scarcity of Permission | Desires exist but never surface. Wanting more feels presumptuous. |
| The Gatekeeper | Scarcity of Security | Controls money to control the relationship. Withholding is protection. |
Know your identity before you begin. The free assessment takes 4 minutes and reveals which of the five identities has been shaping your relationship with money.
This work is for you if...
- You've tried to change financial behavior but the pattern keeps returning
- You feel resistance around money decisions even when you know what to do
- You sense something deeper is driving your choices and you are ready to name it
- You've read Dating Money and are ready to do the deeper work
- You are done with financial advice that doesn't touch the real problem
This work is not for you if...
- You want budgeting tactics or investment strategies
- You are looking for a quick fix or surface-level change
- You are not ready to look honestly at your money story
- You want gradual, low-intensity work — the 30-Day Dating Money Companion Journal™ is a better fit
Five days. Five movements.
Each day targets a specific stage of the Identity Shift from recognition to embodiment.
| Theme | The Work | |
|---|---|---|
| Day 1 | Reveal | Meet your Relational Money Identity. Name it without judgment. See clearly for the first time, the full shape of who you are with money and why this is the starting point, not the problem. |
| Day 2 | Root | Trace the Identity Wound to its origin. Where did this relational pattern begin? Understanding the root changes how you relate to the pattern, and makes the shift possible. |
| Day 3 | Reset | Begin the identity work. Not affirmations. Not goals. The actual interior shift from a fear-based money identity to a self-trust-based one. This is where the Bootcamp earns its name. |
| Day 4 | Reclaim | Rebuild the relationship between your values and your financial decisions. What does money mean to you — separate from what fear, family, or circumstance taught you it meant? |
| Day 5 | Anchor | Establish the practices and language of your emerging Emotional Wealth identity. Leave with a new identity blueprint and the inner framework to sustain the shift beyond Day 5. |
What's included.
- Five self-paced sessions — one per day, available when you are ready
- Worthiness Reset Workbook™ — structured exercises for each of the five movements: Reveal, Root, Reset, Reclaim, Anchor
- Relational Money Identity guide — specific to your quiz result
- The Worthiness Reset framework — the core Identity Shift methodology
- Your new identity blueprint — to carry beyond Day 5
- Lifetime access to all materials — return to any session as the work deepens
- Bonus: The Worthiness Reset Journal™ — A Guided Journey into Self-Trust, Alignment & Emotional Freedom (digital download, a $29 value) — yours to keep and begin the moment the Bootcamp ends
Why self-paced — by design.
The work of shifting a Relational Money Identity is interior work. It happens in your own time, at your own depth, without the pressure of a group schedule. Each day is available when you are ready for it. That is not a limitation. That is the point.
Where the Bootcamp sits in the full journey.
The Worthiness Reset Bootcamp is Pillar 1 of the Emotional Wealth Alignment Method™ — the Identity Shift. It is the foundation everything else is built on.
Those who complete the Bootcamp have the option to continue into the full Emotional Wealth Alignment Method™ 8-Week Course — all five pillars, the complete framework, sustained transformation. Bootcamp graduates enter the course at a preferential rate and begin Week 1 ready to go deeper than they could have gone without this foundation.
The Worthiness Reset Guarantee.
If you begin the Bootcamp and don't start to see the identity shaping your relationship with money — who you have been with money, and why. You can request a full refund within 7 days.
No questions. No friction.
Clarity is the first shift. You don't need to feel ready. You just need to be willing to see clearly.
If you're wondering...
You don't need all the answers. Just enough clarity to begin.
Do I need to feel ready before starting?
No. You don't need to feel ready. You just need to be willing to see clearly. The Bootcamp meets you exactly where you are, and the self-paced structure means there is no pressure to move before you are ready.
Do I need to take the Identity Assessment first?
It is strongly recommended. The Assessment reveals your Relational Money Identity and the specific wound the Bootcamp will address — so you arrive at Day 1 already knowing what you are working with. It takes 4 minutes and is completely free.
[ Take the Identity Assessment → ] datingmoneymethod.com/quizHow long does it take to complete?
The Bootcamp is designed as five days — one movement per day. You can move through it in a week or take longer. Lifetime access means there is no pressure to rush. The work deepens at your own pace.
What if I don't have time right now?
You have lifetime access to everything from the moment you enroll. Begin whenever it feels right. The materials will be there when you are ready.
Is this about budgeting or financial strategy?
No. The Worthiness Reset Bootcamp works at the identity level — the Relational Money Identity and the wound driving your financial behavior before any strategy comes in. If you are looking for budgeting tactics, this is not that.
What happens after the Bootcamp?
You leave with a reset identity blueprint, the Worthiness Reset Workbook™, and your bonus copy of the Worthiness Reset Journal™ to continue the integration work. If you choose to go deeper, the EWAM™ 8-Week Course is the natural next step — Pillar 1 goes further, and Pillars 2 through 5 build the complete Emotional Wealth identity.
What is the difference between the Workbook and the Journal?
The Worthiness Reset Workbook™ is the structured daily companion to the five Bootcamp sessions — exercises built specifically around each movement. The Worthiness Reset Journal™ is your integration practice after the Bootcamp ends — a guided journey into self-trust, alignment, and emotional freedom that you continue on your own terms. The Journal is included as a bonus with every Bootcamp enrolment.
Pillar 1 — Identity Shift
Emotional Wealth Alignment Method™
Five days to shift the Identity Wound at its source.
Self-paced · $299 · Lifetime access · Immediate start
[ Begin the Worthiness Reset → ]Questions? Email [email protected]
You already know something needs to shift. You felt it the moment you recognized yourself in the Assessment. The Bootcamp is where knowing becomes shifting, and shifting becomes freedom.
You don't need to feel ready. Just willing to see clearly.