Dating Money

Available in 3 Formats: Audiobook, eBook, Paperback

You’re Not Bad With Money

You’re in a Relationship With It

And right now, that relationship might feel inconsistent.

You make progress… then undo it.
You know what to do… but don’t always follow through.

Sometimes you avoid it.
Sometimes you overthink it.
Sometimes you feel in control… until you don’t.

That’s not a discipline problem.

It’s a relationship dynamic.

This Might Feel Familiar

• You avoid checking your account until you have to
  • You overspend, then feel guilt or shame
  • You undercharge, then feel resentful
  • You say yes financially when you mean no
  • You feel confident one week, uncertain the next

You’ve tried to fix it with strategies, plans, or willpower.

But the pattern keeps repeating.

Because the issue isn’t what you’re doing.

It’s how you’re relating to money.

 

What Does It Mean to “Date Money”?

Dating Money introduces a different approach.

Instead of trying to control money…
you begin to relate to it differently.

The way you would any meaningful relationship.

With:

• awareness
  • honesty
  • boundaries
  • self-respect

You start noticing your patterns instead of reacting from them.

You understand your responses instead of judging them.

And slowly, your decisions begin to shift.

This Book Is Not About Budgeting

It won’t give you spreadsheets, rules, or financial tactics.

You already know more than enough.

This book focuses on something deeper:

your emotional and identity-based relationship with money.

Because how you relate to money shapes:

• how you earn
  • how you spend
  • how you receive
  • how you make decisions
  • how you experience worth

What You’ll Begin to Understand

Through Dating Money, you’ll start to:

• Recognize your emotional patterns around money
  • Understand why certain behaviors keep repeating
  • Identify your “money relationship style”
  • Notice how self-worth influences financial decisions
  • Move from reactive choices to more grounded ones

This is not about becoming perfect.

It’s about becoming aware enough to choose differently.

A Different Way to Approach Change

You don’t need to force yourself to be more disciplined.

You don’t need to become a completely different person.

You need a safer, more honest relationship with yourself around money.

That’s where change actually begins.

Included: Rewrite Your Money Story Reflection Workbook

Alongside the book, you’ll receive a guided workbook to help you translate insight into awareness.

Because understanding your patterns is one thing.

Seeing them clearly in your own life is where change begins.

Start Here

Dating Money™ is an invitation to pause and look at your financial life through a different lens.

Not to judge it.
Not to fix it immediately.

But to understand it.

Because once you understand the relationship,
you can begin to change it.

Get the Book Dating Money

A new way to understand your relationship with money.